As individual
When I faced to the difficulty which I can make it, I always keep trying to change the situation by myself, saying for me "you can make it" or "you are not weak, you can bear it".
When I faced to the difficulty which can't be help for me, I once prayed for God (I usually don't believe any religion so maybe I did to my late grand father??) but unfortunately the situation was not changed. From that time I understand that nobody can change my bad situation without trying by myself and sometimes the best way is just waiting the time passed.
As a team reader
I was belonged to kendo club when I was a high school student.
I was a reader of this club at last year of my school life.
From these experience I have had many important match to fight as a group by 5 people to 5 people. Especially when I have to fight as a last person which will decide win or lose, I was really nervoused. At these times, I think preparing a good simulation in brain for winning is important
Thus even if something have not expected happened during match, I can chose another way of winning unconsciously.
I don't understand so much about shackleton's keeping reality and I didn't take action with this idea when I was a reader. But I defined this idea as keeping calm (don't enjoy with the other group) and pay attention to the other member. I think it really hard and important task as a reader.
When I faced to the difficulty which I can make it, I always keep trying to change the situation by myself, saying for me "you can make it" or "you are not weak, you can bear it".
When I faced to the difficulty which can't be help for me, I once prayed for God (I usually don't believe any religion so maybe I did to my late grand father??) but unfortunately the situation was not changed. From that time I understand that nobody can change my bad situation without trying by myself and sometimes the best way is just waiting the time passed.
As a team reader
I was belonged to kendo club when I was a high school student.
I was a reader of this club at last year of my school life.
From these experience I have had many important match to fight as a group by 5 people to 5 people. Especially when I have to fight as a last person which will decide win or lose, I was really nervoused. At these times, I think preparing a good simulation in brain for winning is important
Thus even if something have not expected happened during match, I can chose another way of winning unconsciously.
I don't understand so much about shackleton's keeping reality and I didn't take action with this idea when I was a reader. But I defined this idea as keeping calm (don't enjoy with the other group) and pay attention to the other member. I think it really hard and important task as a reader.
I really like and agree with this
ReplyDelete> that nobody can change my bad situation without trying by myself and sometimes the best way is just waiting the time passed.
In order to change something, we have to take action!
Also, I believe that sometimes time can resolve the problem.
HI Mai,
ReplyDeleteI agree with Tomoko that taking action is the key. I also like what you say about "having a good simulation in your brain for winning." This idea of visualization is so important, and no one else has mentioned this.
Ken