My conflict management strategy
my conflict manegement strategy was withdrawing, compromising, and Smoothing.
I think the result of this test is true, because basically I am not good at poiting bad habits to my friends, in other words, I really nervous about whar the other person think after I pointed otheres. If I got angry about my friend's behavior, at that time I make decision to say something for my friends, but when I face to friend I can not say with anger I always avoid arguing emotional. therefore, sometimes friends can not notice what I was angry and someone who want to be said bad things about her behavior at that time I noticed, sometimes get angry because of my conflict avoiding characteristics.
Of course I am not never facing conflict person, but I am in the habits of storing complaint and finally I expode with anger and the relationship is hard to make up.
I tried to say something at the time I noticed after I pointed about my conflict avoiding characteristics by my friend, because I realized, after arguing about the complaint, the relationship can became stronger and if my friend stand about my behavior, I do not feel good.
Sunday, October 24, 2010
Sunday, October 17, 2010
writing assignment 5
chapter 9 "Risk"
I was surprised that Shachleton was cautious man because I believe that the reader should be brave and not afraid risk taking. I know my idea is a little bit extreme, so let me explain it.
When I imagine "an adventure" and "a reader"and connected both of them, one animation was occured in my mind, that was "one piece".
The story of "one piece" is, as you know, the adventure of pirate sailing around the world with members to be a king of pirate. One main character Luffy, he is a reader of the ship, have a great appetite for adventure. He never afraid taking risk but, if there are danger, sometimes other members of ship stop taking a risk. Thus they make a decision to do something dangerous by discussing and sometimes arguing between themselves. It can say the answer of the ship is the answer of the all members.
From the chpter 9, however, the author said Shackleton had a both of two side which is never taking a unnecessary chance and not hesitating when a risk is justified. and then I wondered is it possible for one person who are cautious to judge we should take a risk or not each times. I mean shakleton could have definitly missed some chance because of him carelessness.
He could have a bood sence of judging whether he should take a risk or not, however I can guess there are also good members surrounded who supported Shakleton.
I was surprised that Shachleton was cautious man because I believe that the reader should be brave and not afraid risk taking. I know my idea is a little bit extreme, so let me explain it.
When I imagine "an adventure" and "a reader"and connected both of them, one animation was occured in my mind, that was "one piece".
The story of "one piece" is, as you know, the adventure of pirate sailing around the world with members to be a king of pirate. One main character Luffy, he is a reader of the ship, have a great appetite for adventure. He never afraid taking risk but, if there are danger, sometimes other members of ship stop taking a risk. Thus they make a decision to do something dangerous by discussing and sometimes arguing between themselves. It can say the answer of the ship is the answer of the all members.
From the chpter 9, however, the author said Shackleton had a both of two side which is never taking a unnecessary chance and not hesitating when a risk is justified. and then I wondered is it possible for one person who are cautious to judge we should take a risk or not each times. I mean shakleton could have definitly missed some chance because of him carelessness.
He could have a bood sence of judging whether he should take a risk or not, however I can guess there are also good members surrounded who supported Shakleton.
Sunday, October 10, 2010
Writing Assignment 4
I am interested in "Egalitarian view" the author mentioned it in Chapter 6 ''Core Team Values". "Egalitarian" means everyone is equal and have a same right. "All organization have hierarchy", as the author said, historically there are always social position in human community whether it is the scale of big group or small group and, it is forced by strong force or weak force. In the Shakleton's ship also there are status difference, so Shakleton create the sense of equality "Egalitarian view".
I think the sense of quality is essential for group because if there are hierarchy, the group can not help and be open minded each other.
It reminds me of my high school life. When I was a member of kendo club, all member took a positive attitude for doing chores such as bringing a cup of water for the teacher after excersise and wiping the floor. At that time, the younger members have to work harder, however, I remembered the old members took a positive attitude faster than any other members. Thus the old mambers are seemed to be arrogant but the rule of equality is avoid being arrogant for the old members.
Therefore, The sense of equality is important to manage the group. This is because being generous is really difficult task for people. I also think what Shackleton did is respectable because he imploved the situation of group to take a positive attitude.
I think the sense of quality is essential for group because if there are hierarchy, the group can not help and be open minded each other.
It reminds me of my high school life. When I was a member of kendo club, all member took a positive attitude for doing chores such as bringing a cup of water for the teacher after excersise and wiping the floor. At that time, the younger members have to work harder, however, I remembered the old members took a positive attitude faster than any other members. Thus the old mambers are seemed to be arrogant but the rule of equality is avoid being arrogant for the old members.
Therefore, The sense of equality is important to manage the group. This is because being generous is really difficult task for people. I also think what Shackleton did is respectable because he imploved the situation of group to take a positive attitude.
Sunday, October 3, 2010
writing assignment3
As long as people are in a couple of groups, people helps each other. At the same time, people can not be escaped from the guilty. I understand this idea in brain but I was annoyed by guilty until quite recently.
I am a member of acappella group which is singing a song without any instrument, thus we made a harmony and also the sounds of drams by the voice only. I am practicing two song recently and I could not sing the one of main part well the other day during practicing. I feel guilty because I said I want to sing that part and I did not know that how do my voice make loudly and feel better. I talked to my mom and I asked her to give me some advice because she was graduated from college of music and was major in the vocal music course. She told me some advice to do voice training (unfortunately the kind of voice production has a difference between the classics she learned and the pop music I am practicing) and also she give me a positive idea. What she said was "Don't think too much, you do not need to feel guilty so much, because having a responsibility and trusting each other is good thing for you. It means that without you, the other people can not make the harmony. Enjoy singing!!". I am always surprised and helped by her way of thinking everything positive. and also I have learned that if I feel guilty, I do not need to show my guilty and keep pulling a long face. I made a decision that If I feel guilty of missed something, I do not pull a long face and I will try to win the confidence from the next time.
I am a member of acappella group which is singing a song without any instrument, thus we made a harmony and also the sounds of drams by the voice only. I am practicing two song recently and I could not sing the one of main part well the other day during practicing. I feel guilty because I said I want to sing that part and I did not know that how do my voice make loudly and feel better. I talked to my mom and I asked her to give me some advice because she was graduated from college of music and was major in the vocal music course. She told me some advice to do voice training (unfortunately the kind of voice production has a difference between the classics she learned and the pop music I am practicing) and also she give me a positive idea. What she said was "Don't think too much, you do not need to feel guilty so much, because having a responsibility and trusting each other is good thing for you. It means that without you, the other people can not make the harmony. Enjoy singing!!". I am always surprised and helped by her way of thinking everything positive. and also I have learned that if I feel guilty, I do not need to show my guilty and keep pulling a long face. I made a decision that If I feel guilty of missed something, I do not pull a long face and I will try to win the confidence from the next time.
Monday, September 27, 2010
Assignment 2
As individual
When I faced to the difficulty which I can make it, I always keep trying to change the situation by myself, saying for me "you can make it" or "you are not weak, you can bear it".
When I faced to the difficulty which can't be help for me, I once prayed for God (I usually don't believe any religion so maybe I did to my late grand father??) but unfortunately the situation was not changed. From that time I understand that nobody can change my bad situation without trying by myself and sometimes the best way is just waiting the time passed.
As a team reader
I was belonged to kendo club when I was a high school student.
I was a reader of this club at last year of my school life.
From these experience I have had many important match to fight as a group by 5 people to 5 people. Especially when I have to fight as a last person which will decide win or lose, I was really nervoused. At these times, I think preparing a good simulation in brain for winning is important
Thus even if something have not expected happened during match, I can chose another way of winning unconsciously.
I don't understand so much about shackleton's keeping reality and I didn't take action with this idea when I was a reader. But I defined this idea as keeping calm (don't enjoy with the other group) and pay attention to the other member. I think it really hard and important task as a reader.
When I faced to the difficulty which I can make it, I always keep trying to change the situation by myself, saying for me "you can make it" or "you are not weak, you can bear it".
When I faced to the difficulty which can't be help for me, I once prayed for God (I usually don't believe any religion so maybe I did to my late grand father??) but unfortunately the situation was not changed. From that time I understand that nobody can change my bad situation without trying by myself and sometimes the best way is just waiting the time passed.
As a team reader
I was belonged to kendo club when I was a high school student.
I was a reader of this club at last year of my school life.
From these experience I have had many important match to fight as a group by 5 people to 5 people. Especially when I have to fight as a last person which will decide win or lose, I was really nervoused. At these times, I think preparing a good simulation in brain for winning is important
Thus even if something have not expected happened during match, I can chose another way of winning unconsciously.
I don't understand so much about shackleton's keeping reality and I didn't take action with this idea when I was a reader. But I defined this idea as keeping calm (don't enjoy with the other group) and pay attention to the other member. I think it really hard and important task as a reader.
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
"Vision and Quick Victories"
Long term Vision
I would like to be someone who express what they want to say about the recent world by using the way of movies or books. I know that there are many way to expression what they are thinking , for example, as a photographer, a paintings, a teacher ,a philosopher and a politician etc. Among these occupation I like a director or a novelist best.
If I say specifically, I would like to work at company related to movie because I like reading what the character think in the story. before I enter the University, I wondered whether my interests is general or not. because I thought these things, for example, reading the novel and enjoying movie etc is besicaly familier with everyone and I felt It's not special interest for me. I realized after I enter University, however, that people have a own interest and I found someone who are totally not interested in watching movie and reading novel , that's why I changed my mind and I become have a confident to say it is my interest and dream to make movie or story.
To be a director or novelist I have to make my work but Its really unrealistic because I entered ICU which I can not learn specialized knowledge about movie. therefore I made a decition I'll learn studies related many field of studies which will help me to achieve my personality deeply and to create some story in the future.
As a accompaniment of my interest, I really interested in natural conversation between people. specifically I want to learn conversation by using second language because when people communicate with someone who has same mother tongue, they do communicate and get friendly under consiousness. If people speak with someone in second language, however, I think the situation is defferent and they talk each other and do self-presentation under consiousness. I really want to know Universal way of being known each other, that's why I believe people, even if they speak different language ,has something in common, also have same point to feel and be impressed by seeing same things which will help to get sympathy from many people when I make the story. Therefore I would like to know the communication between people.
Short term vision
First, as I said abobe, I'll keep searching what I really want to know during university and I'll study hard because I would like to get perspective knowledge to judge what is right and wrong about what's going on the world.
. At the same time, I'll make a short story and apply to a book publisher.
Second, I'll study english more as a second language and one of big language to express for many people. I also expected that english as a common language has a possibility to make people's brain clearly and is good tool to show directly because I want to express what I think more clearly but in japanese I tend to express anbiguous way. ( I tried to do so also in english but even now I still can't express my feeling clearly.)
Third, I'll watch many movies and read many novel.
I would like to be someone who express what they want to say about the recent world by using the way of movies or books. I know that there are many way to expression what they are thinking , for example, as a photographer, a paintings, a teacher ,a philosopher and a politician etc. Among these occupation I like a director or a novelist best.
If I say specifically, I would like to work at company related to movie because I like reading what the character think in the story. before I enter the University, I wondered whether my interests is general or not. because I thought these things, for example, reading the novel and enjoying movie etc is besicaly familier with everyone and I felt It's not special interest for me. I realized after I enter University, however, that people have a own interest and I found someone who are totally not interested in watching movie and reading novel , that's why I changed my mind and I become have a confident to say it is my interest and dream to make movie or story.
To be a director or novelist I have to make my work but Its really unrealistic because I entered ICU which I can not learn specialized knowledge about movie. therefore I made a decition I'll learn studies related many field of studies which will help me to achieve my personality deeply and to create some story in the future.
As a accompaniment of my interest, I really interested in natural conversation between people. specifically I want to learn conversation by using second language because when people communicate with someone who has same mother tongue, they do communicate and get friendly under consiousness. If people speak with someone in second language, however, I think the situation is defferent and they talk each other and do self-presentation under consiousness. I really want to know Universal way of being known each other, that's why I believe people, even if they speak different language ,has something in common, also have same point to feel and be impressed by seeing same things which will help to get sympathy from many people when I make the story. Therefore I would like to know the communication between people.
Short term vision
First, as I said abobe, I'll keep searching what I really want to know during university and I'll study hard because I would like to get perspective knowledge to judge what is right and wrong about what's going on the world.
. At the same time, I'll make a short story and apply to a book publisher.
Second, I'll study english more as a second language and one of big language to express for many people. I also expected that english as a common language has a possibility to make people's brain clearly and is good tool to show directly because I want to express what I think more clearly but in japanese I tend to express anbiguous way. ( I tried to do so also in english but even now I still can't express my feeling clearly.)
Third, I'll watch many movies and read many novel.
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